EXTRAMARITAL AFFAIRS AND RELATIONSHIPS BEFORE MARRIAGE

Obviously parents send theirs children to school,universities and in other educational places for built up a bright and successful future but in this modern time teenagers take wrong advantages by the given independence from their parents.Hopefully,in the age of 15years youngsters  are involving in relationships where as they have not wisdom to understand the values of relations and even they cant differentiate in good and bad.But the new generation think it is cool for them ,surely as we all know these sort of relations in teenage are very very common in western countries .In the disaster of young generation MEDIA plays the main part.Social media gives a plattform where people keep in touch but young generation take out another advantages from it,they are using it for finding a partner and to built up their relations.Media promotes these types of relationship in movies and dramas and our generation are adopting all these bad things quickly and made it all as the necessary part of their life.Not only young generation also the elders as well as married people involves in the missed use of social media.Our media promotes extramarital relations and second marriage concepts by their movies and dramas stories.if we can see every second movie and drama based on love stories which gave dark impacts on our society,youngsters and elders pick the bad impacts on their minds and try it practically on their life.Take a look on our Pakistanis dramas we can see a very common thing in it story of second marriage and extramarital relations and its increase these type of cases in our society because the followers are taken impacts on their minds.we are not in right path as we know these types of things are very common in westerns societies,Even our generation inspired by media on that level,they are starting attempt the suicide as we listen a case some time ago that  two students attempt suicide in a karachi school.media is the biggest responsible of perdition of yougsters.Its not our culture and values but why our media teach it all like that its our own cultural values and teach us like these all bullshit is necessary part to live in modern age.

WESTERN FASHION OR INFLUENCE OF WESTERISATION ON CLOTHING

                                                                                                                                                                    Western fashion has been spread through out in our country everywhere just because of media attractions.New fashion channels like STYLE360 just a clear way of promotes the western fashion and as we can see in the Pakistani dramas,characters spread the craze of western clothing by their dress up styling.In LUX STYLE AWARD instead of promotes our dressing style our media promotes the western culture and their fashion.In catalogs,magazines,billboard and products advertises which are making these days just showing the impact of westernization in our minds.

To be honest, Pakistan's fashion shows and advertisement are far from depicting the actual culture of Pakistan(reference Google).

Our Pakistani fashion industries totally inspired by western fashion and even they do not hesitate or felling ashamed before revealing clothes in their collections.Our high class society showing their class by wearing less and by exposing their body.Media have responsible for the development of society and media have also responsible for destroy the development of society.Garment industries attractive advertisements are also responsible for the craze of western fashion.The western fashion move like windstorm everywhere.Wearing DUPPATAS lost their importance in upper class and media society day by day.It is a mandatory part of our dressing culture as well as its a must part of our dressing culture for women and to cover heads and bodies is necessary in our religion ISLAM.We are ignoring our islamic and cultural values by our own interests which are diverted by media and admove to those culture which is not our identity.If we still follow this path the day has to come soon when we will totally forget our own traditional values and islamic restrictions which are only for our benefits,we are finishing our treasure of tradition by our hands because our diversion to westernization,this is the time for us to deeply concentrate on our illicit desires which are the reason of attraction to westernization and also the reason of distance to our religion,culture and its values.

WESTERN CELEBRATIONS

                                                                                                                                                                   Now days with the changing  in manners,methodology and techniques fashion and way of living of new generation are also changed.Young generations too much inspired from media.Media diverted the minds and interest of youngsters by promoting the western celebration instead of our values,culture and celebrations,for example new generation  are more enthusiastic  about Christmas parties,Basant festival,Holi parties,fireworks,new year celebrations,halloween parties.Westerns people throughout the world celebrate with firework as a part of newyear celebrations and by watching these things our people adopted this culture and start using fire crackers even at islamic occasion SHAB-E-BARAT. Basant(kite flying) festivals is not the part of our culture traditionally it is said that Basant is celebrate to bid farewell of winter and announce the arrival of spring season as we also know that we are facing a great loss every year by the Basant festival.In our society as well as universities started celebrates these all western celebrations every year,where the generation goes to learn what is right to do or not do but it is really sad for us our educational system also teach youngsters about the westerns culture instead of our owns .its just showing that how much our society influenced by media and western celebrations and how far this influenced going to effect our generations infact now these days youngsters are more excited for all of these celebrations instead of their own cultural celebrations.If these non Islamic celebrations keep going on and keep promoting by our media our own culture and our identity may be lost soon.We left our Islamic values and our culture day by day just because of too much influenced by media in other words we are attracting towards evil traditions,we must have to leave these traditions by which we are loosing our own identity and values and we must have to think that our priorities is our own celebrations or westerns celebration? and how far our exuberant effect on upcoming generations,what values and traditions taught us from our ancestors and what values and traditions will transfer to our generations from us?.